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« on: August 03, 2010, 03:12:46 PM »

 Undecided  Charlie has so far been a wonderful companion, but lately he's taken to screaming like a baby bird calling for his mommy.  I admit that more times than not I've been spoiling him by bringing him in my family room first thing in the a.m. and having a mixture of seeds and treats for him to munch on as well as taking him outside while I do yard work, etc.  He never screams when I'm in the room - only when he can't see me (or anyone else in our family is not in "his" room).  My husband works 12 hour shifts at night, so screaming during the day isn't working out.  I've tried spraying him with water, but I've since learned that's not a good idea.  I sometimes cover him up and he tells me "goodnight," but this sometimes only lasts a few minutes to an hour or so, then he screams through the cover.  He has lots of toys.  The thing is, sometimes I'm not in the mood to take him out first thing, but he insists that I do by screaming.  Sometimes I want to be alone!  I find myself whispering when I've been away from him for awhile because the minute he hears my voice, the screaming starts (or if he sees me - I've actually tried to hide from him when I move through the house - now that's silly).  Am I now a slave to what Charlie wants (i.e., sitting w/me every moment I am home?)

When we're in the sitting room in the evening where I keep his cage and he's walking all over the ground and trying to feed me his evening meal and another person walks in, his feathers get all ruffled, his eyes get big then small (back and forth), he freezes or walks fast toward them and if they move he chases them and if I try to pick him up he can bite me rather hard, like he's mad at me that someone else is there.  Is this jealousy?  I think he thinks we're married.  Any suggestions for me would be appreciated or even ideas why he does these things.   Huh

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« Reply #1 on: August 03, 2010, 03:29:20 PM »

It seems that you have tuned Charlie--unintentionally--to scream to get your attention/company. May be you wanted him to stop screaming and attend to him which makes him believe that you will come when he screams.
I'm afraid you have to start over again in getting him on the right path. First off, make a routine for him whereby he is covered for his night's sleep and you remove the covers to give him break fast and be with him or some time. Leave him alone for a while and if he screams don't tend to him, but if he calls you in a lovely voice or whistle go to him and talk to him in a loving tone.
Also if your husband works in the night shift and rests during the day, what you can do is to have Charlie sleep late at night and also change his feeding timings to night. That way he will most probably make up for his sleep during the day and your husband may have some quite time to rest.
Good Luck
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